Want a Greater Sex? Get in the gym! Why? There are so many reasons why it will help. Don’t believe it? In that case, read this for 10 great reasons to get in the gym.
Studies have linked the way people feel about their own body image to their sexual satisfaction. Think of how you view yourself.
How do you feel about your body image, naked or clothed?
Do you like your weight?
Do you pick yourself apart?
Are you physically and mentally healthy?
If you’re fit, chances are greater that you already have a great sex life. I may not need to explain to you any further why fit people have better sex, but I bet you’re curious. However, if you resolve to get fit in the near future, let me give you 10 more reasons to plow down the door of the gym each day with a smile on your face.
#1 Fit Bodies Attract Mates
Let’s be honest: If you already work out, you probably have a gym crush on that ripped guy or fit chick you see killing it day in and day out at the gym. They’re the reason you think up extra stuff to do in the weight room. You just want to stay longer and once in a while glare using the handy mirrored walls. I bet your gym crush probably has a really fit bod!
Joseph Drumm, D.O., Psychiatrist and Medical Director (2016) states, “Many people will feel more attracted to a partner who is of fit appearance and persona. This is likely related to an intrinsic desire to seek out a mate who is more likely to provide healthy, robust and strong progeny. Like most passions, this drive is unconsciously ascribed to us, and also incredibly powerful.”
If you have been looking for love, start by bettering your physique through exercise. You never know, you may be the fit person that someone is staying longer at the gym to see, and your chances of landing dates and scoring in the bedroom will skyrocket!
#2 Physical Activity Releases Sex Hormones
That good feeling is a product of chemical reactions that are occurring in your body caused by dopamine, the feel-good chemical. Your body releases dopamine to tell it when it likes something. This could range from certain foods to sex or anything in between.
Regular exercise boosts your dopamine levels. The dopamine benefits your body in many ways. One way is by suppressing your appetite. This keeps your body image healthy and it’s linked to orgasms. Superior orgasms keep both parties sexually interested and active.
#3 You Love Your Body. You’re Confident
If you’ve ever made a successful fitness journey, whether it’s going from scrawny to brawny or from chunky to slim, you likely noticed that people treated and responded to you differently. It’s almost maddening. At the same time, you feel empowered, and you love your body when you are at the pinnacle of your fitness journey. What happens next is that confidence bleeds from your pores.
Guess what?
That’s attractive.
Drumm (2016) states, “Persons who are physically fit generally have higher self-esteem and improved body image–both enhancing a person’s confidence about engaging in sex and elevating how he/she feels about ‘self’ in the process.”
When you feel comfortable enough to flip the lights on in the bedroom before sex, you can bet that the whole experience is about to be enhanced.
Get fit.
Get naked.
And, feel comfortable in your own skin!
#4 Exercise Gives You More Energy (For Later)
“Skinny, slim women got the camel toe within them. You can hump them, lift them, bend them, give them something to remember. Yell out timber when you fall through the chop shop.” I didn’t write the lyrics.
OutKast did!
That’s a short piece from their song, “The Way You Move.”
The lyrics make a point, though. If you are fit, your cardiovascular health, energy levels, and flexibility are going to be on point. That brings benefits in the bedroom. The described male seems to have moves that require strength and stamina. If you happen to be the skinny, bendable girl, well you get something to remember since you can be easily manipulated (and now I’m turning beet red).
On the other hand, according to a piece on WebMD by Deb Levine, “people who are out of shape are often less motivated to have sex. They tend to tire more easily, and have a lower sex drive and less stamina than folks who work out.”
Strength and energy are both musts for exceptional sex, especially if you want to have similar sexual experiences as OutKast describes.
Become a regular gym-goer!
#5 Your Body Won’t Give Out When Things Get Heavy
Body failures can truly ruin the moment. Imagine being in the heat of the moment. Things are getting good. Then, a muscle spasm (instead of an orgasm) occurs.
Moment killer!
For everyone!
Let’s face it: Moves like a senior and moves like Jagger are not in the same category.
What’s the solution?
You guessed it: Exercise.
Exercise is good for your overall health. It keeps your muscles conditioned and your joint’s health intact. If you can perform pushing and pulling exercises, abs exercises, squats, and deadlifts that require real work from your body, sex shouldn’t be an issue. Think of your hour-long gym training as an insurance policy for performance in the bedroom.
#6 Improve Sensitivity And Responsiveness
Drumm (2016) states, “The benefits of engaging in regular exercise, with regard to quality of sex and sense of well-being, are numerous. Routine moderate to intensive exercise improves sensitivity and responsiveness of the autonomic nervous system, which is directly involved in sexual arousal, performance and also plays a significant role in regulating mood and anxiety.”
Ladies, you can’t lose here. Exercise puts you in a better mood by releasing endorphins. You’re in a good mood. You leave the gym feeling good about your body. The exercise primed your body for sexual activity, and you go home to your fit man. Because your man is fit, exercise improves his sexual functioning and gives him better orgasms. I don’t even need to say what happens next, but this fit couple is happy.
Exercise provides additional sensitivity and responsiveness, sexually speaking, for those who routinely work out. The moral of the story is that fit couples work and play well together, and because of the improved sensitivity and responsiveness, both parties enjoy sex tenfold.
#7 Both Sexes Experience An Increase In Testosterone
Men and women who experience low testosterone have lower sex drive. This also leads to less pleasurable sex. Thankfully, exercise can be the best testosterone booster and thus be part of the cure.
After exercise of any type, testosterone levels rise in both men and women, and testosterone fuels your sex drive. The only catch is that you have to be consistent in the gym. You can’t go once per week for a boost on the day you need it.
What type of training is best?
Metcalf (2015) interviewed Todd Schroeder, PhD, who studies exercise and hormones at the University of Southern California. Schroeder states, “Lifting weights or doing other strength-training workouts has a bigger effect on your testosterone.” Schroeder also suggests these tips while training:
- Use more muscles.
- How?
- Do full-body workouts.
- Why?
- They affect testosterone more than doing stuff like biceps curls.
- Lift heavier weights rather than doing high reps of lighter weights.
- Keep rest periods short during your workout.
#8 Avoid Developing Sexual Dysfunction, Both Men And Women
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Wow i dint know these, i am starting gym from today itself, good information
Thank you
You’re welcome 🙂
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Why were most point when the woman losses interest or is too stressed and not interested in sex. I’m lucky if I get lucky twice a month th from my guy. My sex drive seems to be higher than his nowadays and this article makes sense I workout 6 days a week and he is struggling to go to the gym lately :/
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When stress goes away, a woman can refocus on sex. It becomes a priority once again instead of being pushed to the end of the to-do list, and it’s all because she was able to hit the gym.